{"id":230,"date":"2010-05-11T22:38:19","date_gmt":"2010-05-11T20:38:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/?p=230"},"modified":"2019-07-03T16:30:10","modified_gmt":"2019-07-03T14:30:10","slug":"rusty-a-ja-ii-nejdulezitejsi-ve-vycviku-je-pochvala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/?p=230","title":{"rendered":"Rusty a j\u00e1 II. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ve v\u00fdcviku je pochvala!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cel\u00fd \u017eivot se sna\u017e\u00edm poznat zv\u00ed\u0159ata, co nejl\u00e9pe jim porozum\u011bt a tak\u00e9 je trochu p\u0159izp\u016fsobit obrazu sv\u00e9mu, tedy tak, aby s nimi bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed. Zaj\u00edm\u00e1m se o etologii, mimoto jsem tak\u00e9 vystudovala psychologii a pedagogiku, tak\u017ee o principech u\u010den\u00ed n\u011bco snad i v\u00edm a sna\u017e\u00edm se to v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b aplikovat. Jak\u00e9 jsou nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed kroky k tomu, aby se \u017e\u00e1\u010dek (a\u0165 u\u017e lidsk\u00fd nebo zv\u00ed\u0159ec\u00ed) n\u011b\u010demu nov\u00e9mu nau\u010dil? \"\"P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm klidn\u00e9, p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9 ovzdu\u0161\u00ed naprost\u00e9 d\u016fv\u011bry beze strachu. D\u00e1le potom nastaven\u00ed optim\u00e1ln\u00edch podm\u00ednek ke zvl\u00e1dnut\u00ed nov\u00e9 dovednosti. Tresty a pok\u00e1r\u00e1n\u00ed, kdy\u017e se n\u011bco neda\u0159\u00ed, zpravidla p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nezab\u00edraj\u00ed. Mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed je nebety\u010dn\u00e1 trp\u011blivost u\u010ditele a poskytov\u00e1n\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edch a dal\u0161\u00edch \u0161anc\u00ed. Hled\u00e1n\u00ed nov\u00fdch zp\u016fsob\u016f, jak \u017e\u00e1\u010dka k pochopen\u00ed dov\u00e9st. Nab\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed k tomu, aby se znovu a znovu pokusil a spousta \u010dasu, o nic p\u0159ece nejde. Sebejistota u\u010ditele, kter\u00fd v\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e bude trp\u011bliv\u00fd, sv\u00e9ho sv\u011b\u0159ence k c\u00edli dovede. A p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm ka\u017ed\u00fd sebemen\u0161\u00ed krok spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem mus\u00ed b\u00fdt odm\u011bn\u011bn.<\/p>\n

Moc se sna\u017e\u00edm t\u011bchto z\u00e1sad dr\u017eet p\u0159i pr\u00e1ci se zv\u00ed\u0159aty, ov\u0161em, mus\u00edm si to p\u0159iznat, jsem od p\u0159\u00edrody u\u010ditel mizern\u00fd. Netrp\u011bliv\u00fd, se sklonem ztratit sebejistotu a ob\u010das i nervy. D\u00edky bohu, zv\u00ed\u0159ata, a tak\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edda prepubert\u00e1ln\u00edch harant\u016f, u\u017e m\u011b docela vycvi\u010dila nervy neztr\u00e1cet a sebejistota se lety praxe dostavila. Tak\u017ee to snad u\u017e se mnou nen\u00ed tak zl\u00e9. V ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se alespo\u0148 d\u016fsledn\u011b sna\u017e\u00edm oce\u0148ovat a odm\u011b\u0148ovat v\u0161echny spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 kroky spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. Tak\u017ee mi zv\u00ed\u0159ata funguj\u00ed k oboustrann\u00e9 spokojenosti.<\/p>\n

Te\u010f jsem se ale dostala do pon\u011bkud neobvykl\u00e9 situace. Z pozice u\u010ditele jsem se najednou, ne\u010dekan\u011b a ne zcela dobrovoln\u011b, ocitla v roli \u017e\u00e1ka. V\u0161echny ty chytr\u00e9 rady, kter\u00e9 jsem s v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm \u010di men\u0161\u00edm \u00fasp\u011bchem uplat\u0148ovala na sv\u00fdch sv\u011b\u0159enc\u00edch, jsou najednou uplat\u0148ov\u00e1ny na mn\u011b! Nev\u00edm sice, kde studoval, ale pedagogick\u00e9 principy zn\u00e1 evidentn\u011b na v\u00fdbornou. M\u00e1 mo\u0159e trp\u011blivosti, nikam nesp\u011bch\u00e1 a opl\u00fdv\u00e1 tichou sebejistotou jedince, kter\u00fd um\u00ed a v\u00ed, \u017ee um\u00ed. D\u00edky sv\u00e9 neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9 laskavosti, klidu a toleranci vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ovzdu\u0161\u00ed naprost\u00e9 d\u016fv\u011bry a pohody, v n\u00ed\u017e jde \u010dlov\u011bku u\u010den\u00ed samo. Pokud n\u00e1hodou nejde, nevad\u00ed, nic se p\u0159ece ned\u011bje. Chyby, omyly a slep\u00e9 uli\u010dky jsou ml\u010dky p\u0159ech\u00e1zeny a tolerov\u00e1ny. Zkus to znovu a l\u00e9pe. A hlavn\u011b \u2013 jemn\u011bji, uvoln\u011bn\u011bji, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed. \u010casu m\u00e1me dost.<\/p>\n

D\u0159\u00edv nebo pozd\u011bji se skute\u010dn\u011b zada\u0159\u00ed \u2013 jako zku\u0161en\u00fd pedagog nikdy nezapomene odm\u011bnit krok spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. A zpravidla je to odm\u011bna, p\u0159i kter\u00e9 mi kles\u00e1 \u010delist a jen si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m \u201eje tohle fakt mo\u017en\u00e9\u201c? Mimochodem, pod\u011blil se se mnou je\u0161t\u011b o jeden zaj\u00edmav\u00fd psychologick\u00fd trik \u2013 jak vyzr\u00e1t na situaci, kdy\u017e se n\u011bco neda\u0159\u00ed. Pokud se \u010dlov\u011bk sna\u017e\u00ed a po\u0159\u00e1d, po\u0159\u00e1d to nejde, zpravidla b\u00fdv\u00e1 frustrov\u00e1n. Ov\u0161em lze pou\u017e\u00edt cimrmanovsk\u00fd \u201e\u00fakrok stranou\u201c a dos\u00e1hnout bu\u010fto stejn\u00e9ho c\u00edle jinou cestou, nebo, pokud se c\u00edl uk\u00e1\u017ee jako nevhodn\u00fd, operativn\u011b jej nahradit jin\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

Vezm\u011bte si t\u0159eba dne\u0161ek. Pracovala jsem na kruhu na p\u0159echodech krok-cval-krok po t\u0159ech kroc\u00edch. Nemohu \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee by n\u00e1m to ne\u0161lo, naopak, obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b p\u0159echody dol\u016f byly velmi poveden\u00e9. Ale po\u0159\u00e1d jsem se nemohla zbavit dojmu, \u017ee m\u00e9 mrsknut\u00ed t\u011blem (i kdy\u017e u\u017e notn\u011b zklidn\u011bn\u00e9) p\u0159i nacv\u00e1l\u00e1n\u00ed je nejen neestetick\u00e9, ale i ru\u0161iv\u00e9 pro kon\u011b. Kolikr\u00e1t mi Jana (a x tren\u00e9r\u016f p\u0159ed n\u00ed) \u0159\u00edkala, a\u0165 sed\u00edm klidn\u011b, n\u011bjak mi to nejde. Na konci lekce mi Rusty nab\u00eddl opravdu moc p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd shrom\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00fd klus s jasn\u00fdm poselstv\u00edm \u201ed\u011blej se mnou co chce\u0161, jsem svoln\u00fd ke v\u0161emu\u201c. Zkusili jsme trochu dovnit\u0159 plece a po n\u011bkolika kroc\u00edch p\u0159eklopit do dovnit\u0159 z\u00e1di. Super. Tot\u00e9\u017e na druhou ruku. Tentokr\u00e1t se mi to p\u0159eklopen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b nezada\u0159ilo, n\u011bco jsem tou vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed holen\u00ed ud\u011blala jinak \u2013 a k\u016f\u0148 s v\u00fdrazem \u201ejsi hv\u011bzda, takhle to d\u011blej v\u017edycky\u201c vplul do n\u00e1dhern\u00e9ho shrom\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00e9ho cvalu.
\nNemus\u00edm \u0159\u00edkat, kdo je ten skv\u011bl\u00fd u\u010ditel, \u017ee ne?:-)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cel\u00fd \u017eivot se sna\u017e\u00edm poznat zv\u00ed\u0159ata, co nejl\u00e9pe jim porozum\u011bt a tak\u00e9 je trochu p\u0159izp\u016fsobit obrazu sv\u00e9mu, tedy tak, aby s nimi bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed. Zaj\u00edm\u00e1m se o etologii, mimoto jsem tak\u00e9 vystudovala psychologii a pedagogiku, tak\u017ee o principech u\u010den\u00ed n\u011bco snad i v\u00edm a sna\u017e\u00edm se to v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b aplikovat. Jak\u00e9 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jezdeni-a-vycvik","odd"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=230"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":431,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230\/revisions\/431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lipinska.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}